In John 13:34 Jesus says for us to love one another as He has loved us. Then He repeats that we are to "love one another".
So do WE? Do we truly love one another?
Or, do we only love those that fit into our expectations?
Do we only love those that we can control?
Do we only love those when there is something they can give in return for our love?
Is our love conditional?
Ask yourself this question and be honest about it: "In what ways do I love others as Jesus has loved me?" "If I don't, why not?"